Selfish

(adj.) Selfish individuals are self-concerned, focusing exclusively on having their own needs met.

In many cases, selfish individuals will feed off the energy of others without making any attempts at reciprocity or replenishment. They lack empathy and have little ability for understanding that others have needs too. Selfish individuals are more likely to take care of themselves first, and if you identify as being selfless, you very well could be attracted to a selfish personality in an endless cycle that reinforces your perceived need to give in order to receive love.

 

To find out if you’re selfish ask yourself these questions:

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Do you struggle with empathy?

Are you thinking about your own needs most of the time?

Are you feeling like you must take care of yourself always?

Do you not like to rely on others and struggle with depending on others?

Do you think you’re better than others?

Do you feel that you are not enough but show that you are more than enough to the outside world?

Are you more comfortable with being the center of attention?

Do you feel imposed on when other people share their emotions?

Do you struggle with connecting?

Do you prefer to always be receiving in a relationship?

If you have questions about any of your answers and would like help understanding …